27. "Being assertive gets labeled as bitchy or bossy. Men don’t get called bossy. Men don’t get called emotional either, but they are the emotional ones. You have to be on guard and make sure you say just the right thing when turning down any romantic gesture from a man so that you don’t hurt their feelings and send them into a rage."
"You're also expected to do everything — work full-time, cook, clean, service with a smile. I sound like I’m complaining, and, strangely, I'm not.
It is all normal because this is the world we live in, and it’s okay not to fit these norms. It only took me 40-something years. But I do not care anymore, other than when my safety is concerned. I’m tired." —u/luckystars143
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