2020年12月24日 星期四

2020年12月20日 星期日

I Got My 12-Year-Old IUD Taken Out To Get A New One Put In, And Here’s What Happened

If you've ever read any of my past articles, you may be thinking, Wait a minute, aren't you that girl that got pregnant with an IUD?! Well, lol, yeah that's me. But my IUD pregnancy ended up being ectopic (or in my Fallopian tube). I decided not to have that IUD removed during surgery because my odds of getting pregnant would still be the same — and likely higher — on any other form of birth control. IUDs are one of the most effective forms of birth control, with over 99% effectiveness. TBH, though, the main reason I kept it is that the Paragard is the only hormone-free, long-term form of birth control on the market — and I don't do well with hormones.



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2020年12月18日 星期五

People Are Sharing Tips That Make Shaving Your Butthole Easier, So We Had An Expert Weigh In

In addition, Dr. Puza said that often times people are over-aggressive when shaving sensitive areas, like the anus. "Over-aggressive shaving, either too often or incorrectly done, can lead to irritation and acne-like bumps in that area," he said. So, be gentle!!!

Remember, shaving is a risk for infection, bleeding, scarring. Dr. Puza said, "Folliculitis is a small collection of infections and are one of the risks of shaving your butt. Another risk is hemorrhage. The skin of the anus and butt is extremely vascular. A sharp object can do a tremendous amount of damage to that area. Similarly, if bleeding is a risk, so is scarring. Any time that the skin is injured and the wound is deep enough, you run the risk of causing a scar to form. And, all of these risks are increased if you can’t see what you are doing, so use a mirror!"



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2020年12月8日 星期二

I Tried Bella Hadid's "Face Workout" And It Was Very Weird, But Good I Think...?

Kelly brought out this thing — kinda like a ninja throwing star, only for your face — that they call the Multi-Sculpt. It has six edges, each for a different specific use. Here's how FaveGym broke it down on their website:

Long Edge: De-puffs, contours, aids lymphatic drainage

Grip: Sculpts, aids lymphatic drainage, releases tension

Medium Edge: Aids lymphatic drainage, sculpts, and defines cheekbones

Teeth: Increases circulation, plumps out fine lines, and stimulates collagen and elastin production

Short Edge: Lifts, de-puffs the eye area, and releases eyebrow tension

Tip: Reduces facial tension

This thingy felt good and would totally be great to use on yourself if you have sinus problems! Like the Face Ball, it's also pretty tough to break.

My rating: 7/10



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2020年12月4日 星期五

This TikTok Explaining Why Abortion Was First Outlawed Blew My Mind, So I Spoke To An Expert To Get The Facts

This TikTok Explaining Why Abortion Was First Outlawed Blew My Mind, So I Spoke To An Expert To Get The Facts

Abortion became illegal during the same time period when slavery was abolished.



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2020年12月3日 星期四

8 Black-Owned Beauty Products BuzzFeed's Beauty Director Thinks You Should Shop This Holiday

So let's skip the small talk. This 15 ml bottle of eye serum costs $147. It's from a luxury skincare brand, Epara, and its market are people who choose to invest a bigger buck in their cosmetics. I knew when I opened the thick, embossed box and found the glass bottle perfectly sitting upright in the center, almost like a royal crest on display at a museum, that the price tag would be hefty. And as a woman in my 30s more intentional about consuming luxury and more intentional about what I put in and on my body, I LOVE THIS FOR US!

Before we even get into the performance of the product (spoiler alert: it's great!), there's a void of luxury created by Black people and marketed to Black people in both the fashion and beauty space. There's long been this notion that Black consumers devalue luxury brands, when in reality research shows that high-fashion brands benefit from increased brand awareness, relevance and sales when Black celebrities, often hip-hop artists, verbally nod the brands or collaborate with them. According to a 2017 essay by Business of Fashion, Gucci's Dapper Dan collaboration drove brand searches "across the e-commerce sites Lyst aggregates." The essay also reports that Virgil Abloh’s Off-White became "the third-hottest fashion brand in the world in Q3," while "the massive 217 percent spike in searches for Christian Louboutin shoes since June is attributed to [Cardi B's] 'red bottoms, bloody shoes' hit 'Bodak Yellow.'" And in recent years, we've seen more luxe Black fashion designers, like LaQuan Smith and Pyer Moss' Kerby Jean-Raymond, get the mainstream attention they deserve.

Beauty, however, seems to be lagging behind fashion in this regard. Makeup artist of all makeup artists Pat McGrath made huge waves with the launch of Pat McGrath LABS, her namesake makeup line which is significantly more expensive than a lot of competing brands. But there's still a lot of room for more luxury Black-owned beauty. Brands like Epara aren't just a symbol of how far Black creators have come in the disproportionately white luxury space, but they're absolutely essential for inclusion and equity! So yes, I enthusiastically welcome Black-owned brands that make tiny bottles of serum that cost more than my groceries for the week.

Now onto the product: It's the bomb dot com, y'all! The top is also an eye drop applicator, so as you twist it off the serum goes into the narrow cylinder tube and is ready for application. The dropper fills up, but I never use the full amount. I've had it about two months now, using it in the morning and at night, and the bottle is still close to full. At this rate, I could easily see the product lasting close to a year. I apply a dab to each under eye and gently pat it in. It's a fine formula that spreads with ease and absorbs in an instant. The founder, Ozohu Adoh, sources her organic ingredients from Africa to maximize effectiveness. The Eye Serum's key ingredients are plankton extract for hyperpigmentation, bamboo silk for sebum absorption, and ash tree bark extract for under eye bags, shadows and dark circles. I can already feel that my under eyes are more bouncy and hydrated. I don't really struggle with dark circles so I can't speak to the results there, but I have noticed that my under eye area looks more radiant and bright — more awake if that makes sense. I truly love everything about the product: the ingredients, the story and the experience.

Get it from Epara for $147. Also available in 7 ml size for $77.



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This Woman Caught Her Boyfriend Jerking Off Even Though She Asked Him Not To Anymore — Is She Being Unfair?

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2020年12月1日 星期二

This Woman Is Going Viral For Her Nail Hacks With Random Objects, And The Results Are Mind-Blowing

BuzzFeed spoke to Chrysta, who revealed that the series started after she began doing her nails to cut the cost of going to the salon every two weeks: "I started posting on TikTok as a digital journal for myself to show my progress. As I started gaining followers, I noticed that most people wanted to know how to do their nails with what they already had around their house," she said. "I started looking up different ways to do so, and that led to my 'doing my nails with random things' segment on TikTok."

"So far, I've done my nails with a toothbrush, drinking straws, toilet paper, corn starch, baby powder, leaves, Scotch tape, Oreos — and the list goes on."



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2020年11月24日 星期二

Trader Joe's Beauty And Skincare Advent Calendar Is Back And It Actually Looks Awesome

To be exact, you'll find: Cherry blossom ultra moisturizing hand cream, clementine body butter, an exfoliating vanilla sugar cube, toasted marshmallow body wash, No. 3 formula shampoo, conditioner, and body wash, a peel-off vitamin C mask, gingerbread sugar body scrub, coconut body butter, blueberry and açai facial scrub, almond cream lip balm, rose facial oil, and SPF 15 face lotion.



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2020年11月22日 星期日

I Tried 3 Of The Most Popular Hair Wavers On The Internet To See Which One Could Achieve The ~Perfect Wave~ And Here's What Happened

When I took it out of the box, it was definitely large but not quite as massive as I thought it would be. But omg, it was HEAVY. Much heavier than the Bed Head Wave Artist. I was concerned about my poor, weak wrist.



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2020年11月10日 星期二

Women Are Sharing Childhood Photos Of Their Terrible Hannah Montana Costumes And It's Hysterical

Women Are Sharing Childhood Photos Of Their Terrible Hannah Montana Costumes And It's Hysterical

Brown hair peeking through a blonde wig is a classic look.



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Women Are Sharing The Most Blatantly Sexist Things Men Have Said To Them And 😒

Women Are Sharing The Most Blatantly Sexist Things Men Have Said To Them And 😒

Can society start moving forward instead of backwards already?



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2020年11月5日 星期四

People Are Showing Off Their Biggest Tattoo Regrets (And I'm Honestly Impressed)

"I took one for the team. My friend that has done tattoos for my whole family and does them well. His shop had an invite-only party for his best clients, so my brother, his wife, and I were invited. A week before the party, his team had given us a flash sheet of tattoos to pick from. The party itself was nice, everyone was sober, and we all knew what tattoos we wanted.

Well, there were two other artists there besides my friend. I personally asked if my homie would do mine, as I dislike the woman that works for him. My sister-in-law ended up with her instead, and I went to sit with my homie.

Then she starts telling my SIL that she won't do the tattoo that SIL had picked because it sucks and tried pressuring her to get something she didn't want. I ended up trading spots with her, and my SIL got a cute, delicate clover on her collarbone. I got a fucking cabbage-ass flower. The artist was so rude. I'll get it covered, though a part of me thinks it's funny." —r4732565ca



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2020年10月28日 星期三

Women Are Sharing What They Used To Masturbate With Before Knowing What Sex Was And It's A Doozy

Women Are Sharing What They Used To Masturbate With Before Knowing What Sex Was And It's A Doozy

You'll never look at Barbie feet the same...



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2020年10月20日 星期二

This Nurse's Method On How To Properly Shave Your Pubic Hair Is Going Viral

So, Heather decided to make a TikTok explaining what she believes is the safest way for people with vaginas to shave their pubic hair. She developed this method over the years, going off of recommendations from other co-workers in the field:

(PSA: Whether or not you decide to shave your pubic hair is your personal choice — don't let anyone tell you otherwise!)



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2020年10月16日 星期五

A Blind Woman Is Going Viral For Showing How She Does Everyday Tasks

A Blind Woman Is Going Viral For Showing How She Does Everyday Tasks

Lucy Edwards does her makeup better than a lot of people who CAN see.



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2020年9月17日 星期四

Build An Outfit With 10 Layers And We’ll Reveal Which Disney Channel Star You Are

Build An Outfit With 10 Layers And We’ll Reveal Which Disney Channel Star You Are

Because it’s not a Disney Channel outfit unless it’s 10 layers.



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2020年9月14日 星期一

People Are Low-Key Loving That Kamala Harris Has Worn Converse Sneakers For Much Of Her Campaign

"A black leather pair, a white pair, I have the kind that don’t lace, the kind that do lace," Kamala said. "The kind I wear in the hot weather, the kind I wear in the cold weather, and the platform kind for when I’m wearing a pantsuit."



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2020年9月12日 星期六

Only People Who've Had A Period Will Perfectly Understand These 13 Horrific Moments

Only People Who've Had A Period Will Perfectly Understand These 13 Horrific Moments

Anybody have a tampon or pad so I don't have to use a wad of toilet paper?!



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2020年8月27日 星期四

I Tried 10 Popular Tips To Grow Out My Hair And Here's What Actually Works

This is good to keep in mind for those of us obsessed with flat or curling irons and blow dryers and treatments. No matter how great your hair looks in the moment, there's bound to be some long-term damage if you overdo it — so at least use a heat protector (like this HSI one, $14.89 on Amazon).

I used my blow-dryer to style my hair almost daily even when it was bad, I was just mindful while using it. Plus, I love to curl or wave my hair. While there's definitely some breakage, it's nothing overt.

OFC, if you're using constant and high heat on really brittle hair, you may want to lay off. Plus, with air-drying curl enhancers ($36 on Hair Story), sea-salt sprays ($26.24 for a Bumble & Bumble version on Amazon), and restyling sprays ($44 on Amazon for Oribe's), you can ditch the heat dependency and really embrace your natural hair.

Final Thoughts: I mean, 100% yes, if you're curling or straightening your hair to the point where it's breaking, then avoid heat products. Otherwise, use them at your own discretion and comfort — with a touch of common sense.



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Pick Some Baby Clothes And We’ll Tell You What To Name Your Future Child

Pick Some Baby Clothes And We’ll Tell You What To Name Your Future Child

Prepare for cuteness overload.



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2020年8月24日 星期一

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez Shared Her Skincare And Beauty Routine (And I’m Taking Notes)

"If you are at all a melanated woman, it's really hard to find sunscreen because a lot of sunscreens leave a white cast," says AOC. In the video, her go-to is Biore UV Aqua Rich Watery Essence.

(She also gives a great sunscreen tip that I personally needed, which is to not forget your eyelids and ears!)



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2020年8月21日 星期五

This Is What Happened After A Woman Used A Viral Skincare Product From TikTok

"If you start to develop burning or tingling that is uncomfortable, wash the product off. A little bit of tingling is normal with high percentage acids, but it shouldn’t be painful. If you start developing redness and sensitivity, you may be developing an allergic contact dermatitis or an irritant contact dermatitis to the ingredients, and I recommend you see a dermatologist for evaluation. If, however, you develop open sores and crusting, then that is a sign of potential infection," she added.



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2020年8月19日 星期三

12 Times Harry Styles Said Screw Gender Roles And Wore Whatever TF He Wanted To

According to Vogue, genderless fashion has become increasingly favorable by designers, with many opting to "[merge] their men’s and women’s shows into co-ed shows." Others, as the publication points out, are choosing to "quietly [ignore] the gender labels of clothes" when considering options for styling celebrities.



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It's Time We Talked About Cargo Shorts — Yup! Cargo Shorts, Every Dad's Favorite Pant

Upload up to 4 photos you took of the product and/or how you use it. (We love before & after photos!)


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2020年8月18日 星期二

People Are Sharing The Nails They Asked For Vs. The Nails They Got, And It's Sad But Funny

People Are Sharing The Nails They Asked For Vs. The Nails They Got And It's Sad, But Funny

I'm literally crying over my nails right now...



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2020年8月15日 星期六

All People Who Have Bad Taste In Men Will Find This Post Endlessly Entertaining

All People Who Have Bad Taste In Men Will Find This Post Endlessly Entertaining

Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by your own taste in men.



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2020年8月14日 星期五

This Woman Was Just Falsely Accused Of Sleeping With Her Friend's Boyfriend — What Should She Do?

The rules: All DMs sent to me are for publication on BuzzFeed. Because of the high volume of DMs I receive, I'm not able to respond to individual messages or provide any advice one-on-one. Also, please try to keep your DMs concise — the whole message must fit into a single screenshot or it will not be selected. Thanks!



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We Tried Some Of The Best-Selling Beauty Products Under $15 From Amazon

Upload up to 4 photos you took of the product and/or how you use it. (We love before & after photos!)


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2020年8月13日 星期四

Decorate Your Dream Home, And We’ll Tell You What Percent Martha Stewart You Are

Decorate Your Dream Home, And We’ll Tell You What Percent Martha Stewart You Are

Are you secretly a world-class interior decorator?



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2020年8月12日 星期三

I Tried To Revive My Wavy Hair Using Viral TikTok Methods And Here's How It Went

I wanted to get my wavy hair back to a healthier, less frizzy and dry state and stop using so much heat products after years of straightening!


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There's A Summer Dress From Target That Looks Great On Everyone And We Have The Video To Prove It

Target's A New Day and Ava & Viv sleeveless tiered sundresses might just be the hot weather staples your closet is craving.


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2020年8月10日 星期一

Wanna Know Your True Aesthetic? Just Drink A Bunch Of Coffee To Find Out

Updated 3 minutes ago. Posted on Aug 9, 2020

Wanna Know Your True Aesthetic? Just Drink A Bunch Of Coffee To Find Out

Cottagecore or VSCO?

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2020年8月5日 星期三

This Unique Vintage Swimsuit Is So Incredible We Had 10 People Style It To See All Its Potential

🎶 It was a (kinda) itsy bitsy, teenie weenie white bikini that they wore for the first time today. 🎶


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2020年8月2日 星期日

15 TikTok Beauty Hacks You'll Wish You Would've Known About Sooner

15 TikTok Beauty Hacks You'll Wish You Would've Known About Sooner

Gotta love those TikTok tips and tricks.



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2020年7月29日 星期三

We Had 10 People Style This Tie-Dye Shirt From Amazon And Now I'm Adding It To My Cart

"Great buy! Totally worth the $. This shirt is really tie-dyed, not just a tie-dye print like some of the other ones on here. I usually wear a size large shirt, have a 36C bust, and the large fit comfortably but I think someone with a larger chest would probably want to go a size up." —K. Freeland

"Amazing colors, great fit, super comfortable, and looks rad. Definitely recommend if you’re looking for a relaxed and comfy fit." —Mads

"I wanted to wait to write a review until the shirt had been worn and washed a few times and I'm glad I did. The quality of this product is beyond what I had expected! Bright vibrant colors that last with a beautiful pattern and the shirt itself has stayed true-to-size after several washes! I am extremely happy with my purchase!" —PracticalMage



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2020年7月20日 星期一

2020年7月17日 星期五

I Tried Three Popular Fake-Tanning Products And Here's The Best One

Color: Under certain lights, I did feel like it had an orange tint. However, in natural lighting, like in the photo above, the tan looked pretty natural.

Coverage: This had good coverage with very minimal streaking. Even though the directions said to rinse, I did feel like it washed off a little too much of the tan. (After it's applied, it dries but is sticky to the touch. I was able to wear a robe while it dried, and I actually ended up leaving it on for three hours before I rinsed it off.)

Smell: It reminds me of a good-smelling shampoo. It definitely does not have that unpleasant, distinct smell that most fake tans have. BIG PLUS!

Days it lasted: The tan gradually got lighter, but I would say that around the fifth or sixth day, it was pretty much completely faded.

Price: $21.95 for a 4.9-ounce bottle on Amazon.



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2020年7月13日 星期一

This Guy's Proposal Prank Is Enough To Make Your Heart Stop

This Guy's Proposal Prank Is Enough To Make Your Heart Stop

I went through a rollercoaster of emotions watching this video.



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Choose Some Tattoos, And We'll Reveal Your True Emotional Age

Finally, pick an animal tat



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2020年7月9日 星期四

Let's See If You'd Pick The Same Engagement Rings As Everyone Else

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2020年7月8日 星期三

2020年7月6日 星期一

This Bride With Panic Disorder Performed The Most Untraditional Song At Her Wedding And It's Legendary

Jen added, "'Bodak Yellow,' since the day I first heard it, has been my go-to song to boost my mood and confidence. It even has become my song to calm my anxiety down and distract me from an oncoming panic attack."



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2020年6月28日 星期日

I Tried The 5 Most Viral Skincare Products On TikTok And Here Are The Results

Note: Products were provided to BuzzFeed free of charge, but I was under no obligation to positively review them. All opinions are my own.



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2020年6月27日 星期六

These Are The Top Tricks Celebrities Use To Prevent Wrinkles And Aging

Starting with the most important factor, "what you put in your body" to help your skin, Candace said the key is incorporating fresh, colorful foods. "A diet rich in antioxidants, omega acids, healthy fats, vitamins, and minerals will allow for the skin to glow from within," she said. Her top favorites are berries, bell peppers, broccoli, green tea, avocados, fatty fish, and dark chocolate. (Below is a breakdown of what she says each is most beneficial for.)

In detail, Candace explained, "Some of my favorite foods for healthy, glowing skin are berries and bell peppers, which are high in antioxidants and vitamin C, crucial for the formation of collagen! Broccoli, packed with zinc known for its skin-healing properties along with a compound called sulforaphane, is known to help prevent cancer. Green tea is high in antioxidants, which help neutralize free radical damage, it's also incredibly anti-inflammatory — inflammation is something we always want to reduce within the body, since it can be directly linked to several skin conditions, accelerated aging, and even cancers. Avocados, packed with healthy fats known for keeping our skin moisturized, young, and flexible. Fatty fish, like salmon, keep the skin thick, moisturized, and supple. Dark chocolate is even considered to be a part of a healthy skin diet, keep it 70% cocoa or higher, which maximizes the chocolate's health benefits and tends to be lower in sugar. Cocoa is known for its high antioxidant content and ability to aid in healthy blood flow, which keeps us glowing."



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2020年6月23日 星期二

This Celebrity Makeup Expert Shared Her Secrets For Hiding Acne And Blemishes

"Also, foundation is made to be applied in a thin layer. If you are trying to have a full coverage look, you should opt for a product with more pigment rather than trying to apply a thick layer of a product that is not as pigmented. In the areas where you need more coverage, that is where you will apply your concealer," she explained.



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2020年6月17日 星期三

This Woman's Country Is Extremely Hot, So She Made A TikTok Where She Curled Her Hair On A Pole Outside

This Woman's Country Is Extremely Hot, So She Made A TikTok Where She Curled Her Hair On A Pole Outside

Maybe I don't have to buy a curling wand after all!



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2020年6月13日 星期六

There Are Only Five Types Of Romantics In The World — Which Are You?

There Are Only Five Types Of Romantics In The World — Which Are You?

Are you a hopeless romantic or a passionate romantic?



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2020年6月12日 星期五

Ceiling Fans Have Switches For Hot And Cold Air And Lots Of People Are Just Now Finding This Out

California residents can opt out of "sales" of personal data.



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Women Are Playing A Female Reality Version Of "Never Have I Ever" And It's Heartbreaking

Here are the "put a finger down" experiences she outlines in her video:

– Put a finger down if you've been drugged.

– Put a finger down if your friends have been drugged

– Put a finger down if you've been followed.

– Put a finger down if you walk to your car with your keys or pepper spray as a weapon.

– Put a finger down if you check your backseat and lock your doors the second you get inside your car.

– Put a finger down if you've been sexually touched inappropriately.

– Put a finger down if you did something with a man that you didn't want to do because you were scared to say no for your own safety.

– Put a finger down if you've experienced something really scary or even illegal and you were scared to report it because you didn't think anybody would listen.

– Put a finger down if when you hear or see a man running behind you, you freak out.

– Put a finger down if something bad happened to you and the men who were around that you thought would protect you didn't.



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2020年6月7日 星期日

29 Finger Tattoo Ideas That Are Actually Good

Want to show off your own tattoo? Use the comments below to upload a picture and tell us the story behind it.

Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.



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2020年6月2日 星期二

People Are Participating In A "Check Your Privilege" Challenge And It's A Big Reality Check For Some


@boss_bigmamma is a Virginia woman named Kenya who goes by Big Mamma – a nickname she got from her mom. She told BuzzFeed she made the video to share her personal experience and give others the opportunity to compare their own. "I know discrimination happens for many reasons, which is why I labeled it 'check your privilege' instead of 'white privilege,'" she explained. Here are the "put a finger down" experiences she outlines in her video:

– Put a finger down if you have been called a racial slur.

– Put a finger down if you've been followed in a store unnecessarily.

– Put a finger down if someone has crossed the street in order to avoid passing you.

– Put a finger down if you've had someone clench their purse in an elevator with you.

– Put a finger down if you've had someone step off of an elevator to keep from riding with you.

– Put a finger down if you've been accused of not being able to afford something expensive.

– Put a finger down if you've had fear in your heart when being stopped by the police.

– Put a finger down if you've never been given a pass on a citation you deserved.

– Put a finger down if you have been stopped or detained by police for no valid reason.

– Put a finger down if you have been bullied solely because of your race.

– Put a finger down if you've been denied service solely because of the color of your skin.

– Put a finger down if you've ever had to teach your children how not to get killed by the police.



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2020年5月30日 星期六

Here's How Many Layers Of Foundation You Need To Wear For The SPF In It To Be Effective


"As far as SPF and makeup, as a professional and educational artist, I prefer makeup products with very little to no SPF in them. I believe you should be wearing an SPF on a day-to-day basis, but for special events — or anytime you will be photographed, especially using a flash — SPF should be avoided," she added.



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2020年5月29日 星期五

This Scary Story Of How A Girl Found Out She Has Two Uteruses Truly Left Me Speechless


She also said that after she posted her TikTok (see below), people were confused as to why she bled so much in the first place since her periods are normal now. "Basically, the first year of having my periods, I was only bleeding from one of my uteruses. The second uterus was shedding blood, but it was not draining properly as it should. Essentially, the blood in one uterus was being blocked up and stored because it had no way to get out. Eventually, the uterus became so full that the opening finally burst and all the blood came out at once," she explained.

Since then, Emma has had a minor surgery to expand her uterus opening so it can properly drain every month.



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2020年5月28日 星期四

35 Easy Ways To Throw Yourself An At-Home Spa Day


Promising review: "This helps keep skin moisturized and the snail mucin helps reduce my hormonal acne inflammation. It has a tacky lightweight that can almost be used as a primer under foundation or bb cream. This makes skin appear dewy and doesn’t pill up with most skincare products. Once it sinks in, you can’t even feel that you’re wearing it!" —Jennipede

Get the Cosrx snail mucin essence from Amazon for $20.98.

Promising review: "At 36, when my skin breaks out these days, I just leave it alone and let it do it's thing. I read about these masks and decided to give them a try during a particularly annoying breakout. I am INCREDIBLY impressed. The red bumps, inflamed acne, all disappeared. My skin is left clear and soft." —LindsAcorn

Get a pack of five Mediheal sheet masks from Amazon for $9.95.



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2020年5月27日 星期三

TikTokers Are Obsessed With This ~Magical Powder~ That Removes Leg Hair Without A Razor, So I Tried It


So, as a woman who chooses to shave her legs, I decided to test it out to see what the hype was about:

NOTE: I shave my legs because I like the smooth feeling! Don't ever let anyone make you feel like you have to shave any part of your body that you don't want to. Hair is natural and beautiful!



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2020年5月26日 星期二

10 Small Ways To Reconnect With Your Partner (That Aren't Sex)


Binging a great show together is a top-tier couple activity, but when you're already staying in so much, it can be easy to make it your go-to activity together. And even though you're maybe both offering up commentary and cuddling throughout, it can be difficult to fully connect.

Enter: No-TV nights, where you put on some music and eat dinner in a designated spot (that's not, as Esther Perel says, pushing your work stuff slightly out of the way.) It'll give you the chance to break any monotony in your routine and focus a little more on each other.



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This Woman Added Her Venmo On TikTok To See What Would Happen, And Random Strangers Started Sending Her Money


Since posting these videos last week, Ashley said she has received — and passed on — over $500 from random people on Venmo. "It's truly been incredible to deposit the money into people's accounts, especially people who can’t afford gas, food, or internet for their kids to do school work. Then, to see those people pay it forward to someone else is amazing to witness and be part of!"



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2020年5月25日 星期一

How To Handle Mismatched Sex Drives During Quarantine


Whether you're quarantining with your partner or maintaining a long-distance relationship right now, you might be experiencing vastly different levels of sexual desire.

Thanks to a little more (or less) free time or routine, you might be feeling more turned on than ever — but your partner might be too stressed to even think about having sex at all. Or, vice versa: You could be getting flirty sexts at all hours of the day but barely muster the energy to type back a ";)".

To help, we asked an expert for advice. If you're struggling with very different sex drives right now, here are seven things you can try.



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2020年5月22日 星期五

Women Used To Wash Their Vaginas With Lysol, So Here's How An Expert Says You Should Take Care Of Your Vag


She added: "Another option she can do is to orally take a probiotic like Pro-B, which is composed of a mixture of lactobacilli, which are comparable to the 'good guy' bacteria of the vagina. And if she feels she needs to wash her vulvar area with a cleaning solution, she can use one of the RepHresh washes that are available, and will help her maintain a more acidic pH."



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2020年5月18日 星期一

I Tried Cutting My Hair Without A Tutorial


I Tried Cutting My Hair Without A Tutorial

Kristin attempts to give herself a haircut for the first time (like many of us), but doesn't watch any tutorials beforehand.



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This Guy Thought Period Pads Stuck To Women's Skin Like Band-Aids And Apparently Lots Of Men Think This


He continued, "I’m not sure why I thought it worked like that, but apparently I’m not alone in my thinking. I saw a video on TikTok of a girl laughing about how her boyfriend though the same thing. I figured it would hurt a little to peel off, but period cramps hurt, too. So, I guess I thought pain was a part of it."



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2020年5月15日 星期五

This Woman Went Viral For Being A PhD Student By Day And A Go-Go Dancer By Night


Danielle decided to share her school/work life on TikTok to her 44 followers at the time, but never imagined it would go as viral as it did. "If I would have known that many people were going to see it, I would have put a bit more thought into my word choice! Based on the comments, though, the majority of the viewers seem to be picking up what I’m trying to get across – empowerment and breaking stigmas. Far too often, our actions and self-perceptions are (un)consciously influenced by societal constructs and expectations. We are more than what any label can define us as; whether it be in regards to our gender, age, race, sexual orientation, or career. Yes, I’m a scientist, but that’s not all of who I am," she said.

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"In all honesty, I’m not sure I’d manage without having dance as an outlet. Not only is it fun and exhilarating after a full week of (potentially failed) experiments, but it enables me to make payments on my student loans which relieves a lot of my anxiety. However, managing my time and energy has taken some practice. At first, I was concerned that my dancing would suffer since I prioritize my research, but I realized it didn’t because I enjoy it so much. I also can’t neglect the fact that I rely on my go-go friends for help. Whether it’s covering my shift last minute because an experiment is taking longer than expected or providing me with the lip color or hair piece that I forgot – they’re always there to support and help me," she added.



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2020年5月3日 星期日

10 Beauty Shortcuts That'll Help You Look Put-Together For Video Chats


Tinted moisturizer is basically a great 2-in-1 product. You get all the hydration and coverage without having to apply moisturizer and then blend out foundation. Talk about saving time and effort!

My colleague, Sarah Han, had tried six tinted moisturizers when she switched from foundation to tinted moisturizer. You can get some of her favorite picks from Sephora: the Laura Mercier for $47 (available in 20 shades) and the Amorepacific for $60 (available in five shades). She also liked Winky Lux's tinted moisturizer (get it from Winky Lux for $28; available in seven shades). She says her skin has never looked better, so read her full review here!

If you're not 100% sure about tinted moisturizer yet, check out this Nyx Bare With Me Tinted Skin Veil from Target for $12.99 in light, medium, and dark shades (each shade has more skin tone colors to choose from).



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2020年4月30日 星期四

50 Unique Tattoo Ideas That Are Actually Good


"When my mom turned 70, I jokingly said, 'Hey mom, let's get your first tattoo for your birthday.' She agreed. My mom, sister, niece, and I all got different hummingbirds, my mom's favorite bird." —k4e39fd4aa



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2020年4月29日 星期三

Guess How Much This Hipster Vintage Clothing Costs And We'll Tell You How Trendy Your Style Is


Coachella might never happen again, but you can still buy this dress.



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I Got Pregnant With An IUD That Was Perfectly In Place


Me: I know there are many options on the market, but is there one that is deemed the "safest" overall?

Minkin: If somebody wants absolutely no side effects whatsoever, a condom, contraceptive foam, or a diaphragm are very safe. They have no hormones and no gadgets – but, the problem is they have a higher failure rate. If you use them, knowing you will get a first trimester abortion if they fail, there have been statistical papers that say this is the safest method of contraception. The problem with this is it puts you through the emotional issues of having an unplanned pregnancy, which is a significant emotional issue for many people. In addition, most people don't want the inconvenience of using a barrier method and having to use it every time.

I would say birth control or IUDs with low levels of hormones can offer lighter periods and less cramps. There are all sorts of pluses and minuses as far as what is the best for you. You should talk to your doctor about what contraceptive is best for your needs. There is not one method that I can say is the best or the safest, BUT, what I can say, is that all methods are really quite safe.



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2020年4月27日 星期一

Scrunchies Are Causing People To Think They're Experiencing A Mandela Effect


The scene above was proven NOT to be a Mandela effect though! The first edition of the DVD shows the scene with a dryer, but the later editions were edited to address safety concerns. Basically, Disney didn't want to set the example of children crawling in dryers – so their solution was to change the dryer into a pizza box.



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Style A Disney Outfit And We’ll Reveal Which Disney Princess You Are

Moana’s top + Jasmine’s pants = A look.


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2020年4月22日 星期三

Women Are Sharing Their Glow-Downs On TikTok And They Are Hilariously Real


Women Are Sharing Their Glow-Downs On TikTok And They Are Hilariously Real

"The hottest I've ever been was when I was 18. I look nothing like that now."



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2020年4月20日 星期一

This Woman Made A Behind-The-Scenes TikTok Of What Employees Do With Returned Products At Ulta


Bianca Ann Levinson has been an Ulta employee in Wichita Falls, Texas for over a year. And, she recently decided to share a video on TikTok about how most product returns are handled:

BuzzFeed spoke to Bianca who said she posted the video to spread awareness about what really happens to returned products. "I was truly shocked that this is how returns were handled," she explained. In the video, Bianca uses scissors to scrape unused eye shadow off of a palate and into the trash.

Bianca is also seen pouring out a full bottle of Redken hair product. "I wanted people to realize that when they return things it’s not always put back on the shelf. They should reconsider before returning items they purchased. I understand some people have to return things, but – if it’s not necessary – then I don't believe they should return it," she said.

Discarding returned products is called "damaging out" in the industry, and Bianca said that when she first got the job she had a hard time doing it to so many products – like the brand new Kylie Lip Kit she had to ruin in the video. "As time went on, I learned why it had to be done and it didn’t bother me as much. The main reason why things are damaged out is because of the possibility of cross contamination. If a seal is broken – even if it is unused – we have to either destroy it, send it back to the vendor, or send to DC where it can properly be discarded," she said.

Bianca also said there are dumpster divers who try to sell products they find in the trash online or return them to the store for credit. "If someone sells product out of the trash, it opens up the chance of someone getting sick or an infection and possibly suing Ulta," she said, adding, "We can’t donate for the same reason. Most brands don't allow it either. Ulta cares a lot about their customers and wants to do their best to keep them safe."

"When I work the register, I can honestly say about 45% of the people who come in that day are returning things. About 30% of the product returns are able to be put back on the shelf and the other 70% have to be damaged out and properly taken care of. We most definitely have over $1,000 worth of returned items per week. One time I had a customer come in and return more than $300 worth of makeup that had to all be thrown out," Bianca said.

What Bianca said is done to returned products at Ulta is a common practice. "I don’t want people to come for Ulta and stop going at all. I want people to know that stores like Sephora, Bath and Body Works, Target, Walmart and many others all have to do the same, too."

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"If I had a say so in what could happen, I would like to donate things like hygiene products to women’s and men’s shelters. I know that we can’t because of the risk of infection and cross contamination, but if we could find a way to sterilize some products somehow, it would be worth a try," Bianca added.

Overall, Bianca loves being an employee at Ulta. The main message she wants people to take away from her video is to think before purchasing something...and think before returning it. You can lower the amount of wasted product returns at places like Ulta by asking for makeup samples to test out before purchasing them.

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2020年4月15日 星期三

How to Make Your Bras Look Better and Last Longer


Who really has the time to handwash their delicates? Scrubbing your bras in the bathroom sink can take a backseat to life’s other obligations. Good news: Machine-washing your bras is totally allowed. “The day that I‘ll handwash my bras, I will have nothing else to do in my life,” Lawson says.

To prevent your bras (both everyday and sports bras) from getting tangled and mangled with other clothes, make sure the hooks are clasped and place your bras in a lingerie bag before tossing them in the washer. Set the water temperature to “warm” (not hot, not cold) and use a gentle laundry detergent that doesn’t contain chlorine or bleach. Let the washer run on the gentle or delicate cycle.

And for those dead-set on hand-washing, where are you getting all this free time? Anyway, fill up your sink with cool water and a small amount of detergent and fully submerge your bras. Let them soak for a few minutes before rinsing with fresh, cool water.

For everyday bras, give them a wash after every two to three wearings to remove all the skin cells, sweat, and other oils your body produces. Yes, it’s a hefty ask, but your bras will thank you later. Sports bras can get away with a wash after every use, but keep in mind the stress that washing puts on the spandex. To avoid a full wash, you can rinse the bra with warm water and let it line-dry in between workouts.



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2020年4月13日 星期一

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What Should Your New Quarantine Hair Color Be?

Disclaimer: This quiz is not responsible for any questionable hair choices you make while social distancing.


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2020年4月11日 星期六

Here Are Answers To 17 Questions You Secretly Want To Know About Marriage


1. Q: "How do you know if you're with the person you're meant to spend your life with?" —minstrels

A: I think some people have a moment where they KNOW they found 'the one' and some don't. I don't think this means one marriage is going to last over the other. I actually never had that moment because I am someone who always has hesitations — no matter what — because I overthink things. Even if someone was scientifically matched to be my perfect person, I would still question it.

My husband always says that looks and attraction will never get you through an entire marriage. And it's true. I think a lot of people hold certain things — like looks — to a higher standard than they should when they look for a partner to marry. That stuff is not going to matter when real-life issues arise. Can your personalities coexist on a daily basis, are you able to rely on this person, and can you truly trust them? These are the types of things that are more important at the end of the day. Also, are you willing to put their needs before your own and make sacrifices in your life for them?

Lastly, another important thing to ask yourself is: Does this person inspire me? Because you eventually start taking on some of the same habits as your partner — even if you don't realize it. So, you really want to be with someone who is going to push you to be better and inspire you to live your fullest life.



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2020年4月10日 星期五

Someone Else's Face Was Put On The Boxers This Girl Ordered For Her Boyfriend And Her Reaction Is Hilarious

"It is quite a weird experience to gift your boyfriend a pair of underwear with another woman hugging his pee-pee."


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2020年4月8日 星期三

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I Tried The Most Viral TikTok Workouts For 30 Days, And Here's What Happened


Hi, guys, I'm Farrah! Like many of you, I love spending time watching TikTok. Some might call it an addiction, but I call it entertainment. After coming across many different ~viral~ TikTok workouts that could be done from home, I thought, I should get my ass up off my couch and try this. So I decided to chronicle my 30-day* journey for you, the internet.

Full disclosure: I wanted to do this because February is always a rough month for me. It's the anniversary of my dad's death, and often I find myself doing nothing but watching TV on my couch, so I wanted to start fresh in March. I was excited for the time change (more daylight!), and working out has always helped improve my mental health. So I found three TikToks that looked nonintimidating (I'm not a fitness guru here) and made myself a set of rules.

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By the way, I'm not getting paid to promote any of these products. I bought them all with my own money except for the Goli gummies, which were sent to me to try free of charge — all opinions are 100% my own. I didn't change the way I would normally eat, though, because losing weight wasn't my goal. I did try my best to eat nutritious meals, but I ended up making boxed brownies three different times. No regrets.

The three TikToks I decided to go with were based on virality and diversity of the workout routine. @User392726user provided an ab routine, @alyssa.g.ross came through with legs, and @blogilates (who I believe is actually a certified fitness instructor) helped me out with some cardio.

I'm going to link each of their TikToks below, but I ended up writing out the routines for easier viewing. The circuits look like this:

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The abs TikTok actually recommended doing the circuit twice, but I ended up doing it three times. You can definitely customize these for what works for you!

For easier viewing ability, here is the first TikTok (Set 1):

Here is the second TikTok (Set 2):

And the third TikTok (Set 3):

I know her description says "fat loss," but that wasn't my personal goal. I wanted a circuit that involved a lot of cardio exercises, and this fit the bill.

I started Week 1 with an optimistic mindset, but in reality it was...exhausting. Whenever I start a new workout routine or lifestyle change, it's a bigger adjustment than I realize. By the time I finished all three workout circuits, my body was tired. I was sore the next day. And the day after. But! I persisted.

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My unamused face post-workout on Day 1, and my workout area in my apartment.

After my first week, I realized I needed to replace squat jumps and jumping lunges with mountain climbers and jumping jacks instead. It was too hard on my knees, and I didn't want to injure myself. The replacement exercises allowed me to keep my heart rate up, since the third circuit was more of a cardio routine.

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Squats with leg raise (left) and jumping jacks.

Week 2 was my last "outdoors" weekend before social distancing began in Los Angeles. I spent one of my cardio days hiking, and the other was spent running 3 miles at the gym. I knew I was getting a pretty good workout with the TikTok exercises because I worked up a SWEAT every time I finished each circuit.

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Me on the floor after a workout, feelin' like I could probably take a nap.

My dog, Gizmo, was very interested in what I was doing every time I got on my mat. I liked to think of him as my coach, pushing me to do JUST ONE MORE!!!!!! The ab circuit was beginning to grow on me, and the leg circuit was becoming my least favorite because of the difficulty. Legs have never been my favorite, though!

I started 100% indoor self-isolating routines by Week 3. The only thing that really changed were my two days of cardio. I ended up running 3 miles around my neighborhood for one of the days, and the other was spent jumping rope and doing mountain climbers plus jumping jacks for 45 minutes. I haven't jumped rope since third grade, probably, and forgot how hard it is! I was SO WINDED!!!!

My sluggishness started to fade completely during the end of Week 3. I was feeling good, both physically and mentally. I also felt better about bingeing shows if I was working out/stretching versus sitting on my couch. Also, I'm not sure if this was due to the TikTok circuits, the Seed probiotics, or the apple cider gummies, but I felt less bloated in the mornings, which was an improvement.

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One upside: Running let me explore new streets in my neighborhood that I'd never been down before. Also, don't forget to wear a mask/banana/some kind of face cover!

I felt like I'd gotten into the groove by Week 4 and realized that if I'm going to be self-isolated indoors for another month, I have to do something active every day. Even if it's something as simple as stretching! Gizmo continued to join me during my floor workouts, which mayyyyybe got 5% easier.

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Russian twists pictured above!

By the end of the month, I wasn't like, "THANK GOD THIS IS OVER WITH." I realized which exercises I would continue (abs, most of the cardio) and which I would leave behind (walking crab squats). If anything, this month introduced me to different exercises to try that maybe I wouldn't have done before.

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Plank jacks pictured above!

After 30 days, I noticed that my face felt less "puffy" and bloated. I know the angles aren't perfect in the pictures, but I can see and feel a difference. I have a feeling this has to do with 1) increasing my cardio workouts and 2) omitting alcohol from my diet.

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But who knows? It could also be because I included the Seed probiotic in my vitamin routine. Or was it the apple cider vinegar vitamins? A combination of everything, maybe?

Since I wasn't on a strict diet, there wasn't exactly a huge ending ~transformation.~ The ab circuit was the only thing that gave me a bit more definition, and all three of the workouts felt like they helped improve my pelvic-floor tilt/posture. However, the biggest and most important change was in the way I felt mentally, which is why I highly recommend doing at least 30 minutes of any type of indoor activity during self-isolation — it doesn't have to be TikTok workouts!

When I started the month, I had no idea the coronavirus would spread so quickly and that we'd end up self-isolating. These 30 days showed me that even though fitness studios and gyms are closed, you can still make the best of things by staying active at home in whatever way makes sense for you. It's helped me stay in a good headspace, so I hope that if you decide to try something like this, it helps you, too!



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2020年3月27日 星期五

19 Unpopular Beauty Opinions That You May Or May Not Agree With


Recently we asked members of the BuzzFeed Community to share their unpopular beauty opinions. These were some of the most (un)popular responses:

We want to note that these are just SOME people's unpopular opinions around beauty; however, do what makes YOU happy and what makes you feel beautiful.



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2020年3月26日 星期四

This Facebook Group Is Creating A Safe Space For Black Men And Their Grooming Habits


When you think about grooming and beauty habits, you may not automatically think about men (sorry, fellas). A lot of the beauty industry, including products, videos, and overall content, tends to skew toward women, often leaving men, nonbinary people, and countless other groups off the table. However, companies and brands that dismiss men are leaving a LOT of money on the table: The men’s beauty market is only growing, with projected sales of $67 billion in 2020 alone.

So, what are men to do?

Brandon Patton and Evan Alexander wanted to have not only a safe space where Black men could discuss grooming and challenging cultural norms, but a community that could educate others on how to properly care for facial hair. "Being a Black man in America, I have to worry about what image my beard creates, so growing a beard takes a lot of self-confidence,” Patton told BuzzFeed. The two began the Facebook group Black Men’s Beard VIP in 2015, a men's “online grooming salon” that allows its 4,000-plus active members to share tips, discover self-care for Black masculinity and identity, and rebel against Black facial hair stereotypes.

Read on to learn more about how the two started this cool community and what they hope this adds to the larger beauty conversation.

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In your own words, can you tell us a bit about Black Men's Beard VIP and why you started the FB group?

BP: "I didn't see anyone on social media who spoke our language, catered to our needs, and who could relate to us about growing a healthy beard. There wasn't space for men to be vulnerable and learn about self-love. So I decided to create a place of solace for men to feel comfortable being themselves and embrace it."

Grooming has been seen as a "woman" thing, even though men do care about their skincare (and their beards!). How does the FB group destigmatize beauty standards across genders, but also age, race, socioeconomic background, etc.?

"We focus on being our greatest selves. The people in our group see grooming as part of their process and journey to become their best self and people want to be great regardless of age, race, and socioeconomic backgrounds."

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Black hair, in particular, is seen through a very narrow and oftentimes problematic lens in society. Facial hair is no exception. As a Black man, can you discuss the importance of having a platform like this to discuss what's happening on a larger scale, but also how acts of discrimination and prejudices affect the individual?

"Our Black Men’s Beard Facebook group serves as a safe place for men of color growing or beginning their beard journey. It provides a network of support, with understanding and empathy for men. This safe space is important because it allows members to seek advice, have unfiltered conversations, and connect without the worry of meeting Eurocentric beliefs."

What are some of the stereotypes that have been placed on you or others because of your facial hair? How do you work to break those down? Are those situations where race is the only factor, and is your FB group exclusive to Black men?

"The prejudgments or prejudice associated with being a bearded man of color are vast. For some, the prejudgments are instilled in them in the home — having heard the groans of older generations perpetuating Eurocentric beliefs by asking the younger generation to assimilate with mainstream society by shaving or cutting their beard, with the hopes that this act of adaptation will provide a more respectable and accepted image. However, people are flawed with unconscious biases.

For example, the presence of a beard could cause someone to be intimidated or think that someone is unapproachable, causing them to prematurely draw conclusions such as 'He doesn’t fit the company culture' or 'He seemed aggressive.' These assumptions or unconscious biases are damaging and hurtful. It can inhibit one’s corporate ascension or delay opportunities. It could also lead some to believe that they are not worthy or good enough as they are.

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Our Facebook group is open to anyone who requests to join the group. However, the majority of our members are men of color.

Understand everyone’s story is unique, so embrace yourself and your beard!"

Alright, so let's talk about some of the good content we can find on the page!

"On our page, you can find a plethora of beard care tips. You will also find our fitness videos that men do at home; seven-day fruit fast challenges to encourage healthier beards, skin, and hair; and different smoothie recipes men can create at home."

What are your favorite beard tips? We need to know how to grow and keep a flourishing and healthy beard!

"I recommend these simple core tips. 1) Use beard care tools to grow a healthier beard. 2) Do a beard scrub 1–2 times per week. 3) Hydrate your beard with a beard hydrator. 4) Detox your beard once a week, once per month, or once every three months to improve the skin underneath your beard. 5) Eat as healthy as possible to nourish your beard."

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You also mention that the page isn't JUST about beards, but also taps into conversations like Black manhood and masculinity, etc. Can you discuss how the two worlds are created and how you're using grooming as a way to have some of these bigger conversations within and outside of the Black community?

"Yes, our group isn't just about beards. It's about being responsible for yourself, family, and your community. This level of mentality requires accountability, consistent action, and personal growth. We practice these values through self-care and self-love when we groom ourselves.

We often take for granted the process of grooming and how much of an impact it can have on people's lives in our communities. If you can take consistent action with taking care of yourself, you can transfer that behavior to your family and throughout your community."



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2020年3月25日 星期三

25 DIY Nail Art Tutorials You'll Probably Want To Try At Home


We hope you love the products we recommend! Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

1. A tutorial with three different ways to master a nice gradient design. Your nails are gonna look — dare I say — great-ient?

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If you wanna try these methods, a peel-off barrier ($14) will help keep things clean.

2. And a reverse stripe gradient idea to try out once you master the single gradient technique.

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You'll need some nail tape ($3.75) to get those crisp lines.

3. A sweet lil' penguin idea you'll probably wanna try out the second you finish watching the video. I'm already taking stock of what colors I have.

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I never wanna have penguin-less nails ever again.

4. A black and white print idea that you'll want to show off online until the cows come home.

5. A guide to using tape to get nice crisp lines for your checkered design. Former ska kids rejoice!

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Scotch tape can do so much!

6. A water marbling technique that looks surprisingly easy.

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The tutorial suggests tape to keep the polish off your skin, but the previously mentioned peel-off barrier works even better.

7. Or a marble-like design for anyone who wants to match their granite countertops.

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This one is for more advanced nail artists! It's sorta like watercoloring your nails.

8. A Valentine's Day-inspired look that honestly works all year round. I think we all need some extra love right now.

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This is my favorite simple but genius design! It's so easy and so, so cute.

9. A smoke-like technique for nail artists looking for a challenge.

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This one looks challenging, but I believe in you!

10. A fun text transfer that reminds me of being a kid and sticking Silly Putty onto newspaper.

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11. An interesting maneuver that'll let you DIY fake nails with corn starch.

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This can last up to a week! The method also works as a temporary re-fill.

12. A tutorial with 10 different ways to perfect that cool slime design. Even if like, nine of these techniques look too hard, there's probably one that works for you.

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This is also just a good guide on all the different ways you can make a simple stencil. There are so many ways to get the right shape.

13. A simple tutorial that'll make your nails look so nice, it'll make you feel like you're on Cloud Nine.

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With help from a dotting tool ($9.99 for four), you'll have no problem making perfect cartoon clouds.

15. A galaxy-inspired design that'll make your manicure look out of this world.

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This process involves a few metallic colors, a sponge, and lots of patience.

16. A simple but intriguing look to really make use of that negative space.

17. A shimmery technique that involves Sharpies. Don't worry, it's more sophisticated than what you used to do in seventh grade.

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Start with a metallic base count, add your Sharpie designs, and make them swirl with a little help from some rubbing alcohol.

18. A glittery rainbow-tipped look that's all sorts of wonderful. Also wonderful? The artist's husband narrates the tutorial.

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19. Or a different rainbow design that's so adorable, you may never stop squealing over it.

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Best of all, this is a no-tools tutorial. You just need a looooot of colors.

20. Simple but instantly recognizable Pokéball nails that any aspiring trainer would be happy to show off.

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You'll need a steady hand and some nail tape ($3.75) for this one.

21. A panda design you'll find easy to master, but it will still impress the heck out of everyone.

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You can get the ear shapes using the head of match and then make the smaller details with a needle or tiny paintbrush.

22. A challenging monarch wing design for people who are ready to spread their wings and fly — nail art-wise.

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This method involves a lot of tools, so it might be best for expert nail artists who already have a full arsenal at their disposal.

23. A neon lightning bolt idea for anyone who wants something flashy.

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Once again, tape is going to be your friend here. Once you get those in place, you can throw on polish with reckless abandon.

24. A geometric idea that just needs a lil' strip of tape to happen. You can do this one, I know it!

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This design would also look good without the tape design, imo.

25. And breakfast-inspired art for truly egg-cellent looking nails.

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Eggs are super easy to paint because they're basically just white blobs with yellow dots in them.



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16 Easy Tips For Anyone Who's Stressed Out By The Whole Idea Of Makeup


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1. Instead of just water, which might interfere with your makeup coverage and thin it out, use a hydrating face mist to dampen your makeup sponge for a dewy look and smooth blending. No streaks or unevenness here!

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A licorice facial mist brightens and evens skin tone with licorice water, while moisturizing with bamboo water and centella asiatica leaf water so you get all of those benefits when using this in tandem with your makeup! Rosewater is another popular option, as it balances and soothes skin with herbal extracts and refreshes your overall look.

Get the licorice facial mist from Soko Glam for $24 and the rosewater mist from Amazon for $12.

2. Similarly, use those same hydrating face mists to spritz your face in between makeup layers to keep your makeup seamless and smooth instead of cakey and powdery (a beauty nightmare 😳).

3. When you're looking tired or you have no time for perfect eyeliner, line your lower eyelids with a shimmery gold, bronze, or nude eyeliner for a quick way to spruce up your eyes. It's a simple hack to open them up and brighten your eye area, making you look less tired and more awake!

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The shimmer or slight glitter will also catch the light, making your peepers seem brighter.

Get the MacQueen gel liner from Yesstyle for $3.16, and the rest from Ulta:

—the CoverGirl Exhibitionist eyeliner in Gold Metallic for $9.99

— the NYX Jumbo eye pencil in Sparkle Nude for $3.15

—the CoverGirl TruNaked Shadow Stick in Lush for $9.99

4. Trying to get symmetrical wings for a winged eyeliner look takes up hours and way too much effort — use an eyeliner stamp instead to save time and get perfect wings. Your time is precious!

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You can get the set of two eyeliner stamps pictured above (one for each eye) from Amazon for $14.97.

5. Winged eyeliner in general is known to be notoriously hard. An easy hack: use a gel pencil liner instead to quickly slide over your lids and voilà: you've got your peepers lined for the day. It's quick and doesn't have to be so precise like liquid liner.

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Plus, there's no drying time so you can rub away or draw over it if you make a mistake. And contrary to popular belief, you don't always need to flick the edges and create wings!

Try a Rimmel eye pencil to recreate the look above from Amazon for $4.44.

6. Still want the liquid liner look but afraid of messing up? Layer! Use a gel eye pencil to draw on the liner first so you have a base to follow. If it's imperfect, you can just clean it up and even it out (way easier than with liquid). Then draw over that with liquid liner and you're done!

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You get double the staying power too.

To try it yourself, get a Rimmel eye pencil for $4.44 and the NYX Epic Ink liner for $6.29.

7. If you want to try metallic eyes, a gel shimmer pencil OR metallic eyeshadow is easier and quicker, rather than liquid glitter eyeshadow, which can be messy and stressful — more so when you're dealing with sparkle!

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You can get an Etude House pencil for $6.80, the Etude House Jewel eyeshadow for $6.56 and a Colourpop Super Shock Shadow for $6 to try it yourself.

8. When you have no time to do anything else or a full face feels like work, a quick sweep of blush provides a flushed, healthy glow, brightens your face, and prevents the dry, washed-out look by adding some color to your complexion. You can rock it even when you're wearing no other makeup!

9. When it's too much to put on foundation everyday, opt for a glowy, luminous base cream or moisturizer for a quick skin pick-me-up that evens out your complexion and still hydrates. Even when you're not wearing makeup, you still look bright and fresh.

10. If a traditional highlighter takes too much effort or you want an easier way to accentuate your cheekbones but don’t want to go all-out, use clear lip balm or lip gloss on your cheekbones to catch the light. Rub it on your Cupid's bow, brow bone, anywhere you want to glow!

11. For easy monochromatic looks or if you don't have a matching blush or if you just ran *out* of blush, use cream lipstick! Just tap a few dots on the apples of your cheeks and blend with your fingers or makeup sponge. Ta-da!

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Use it as eyeshadow too! Take your favorite lipstick and dab the color on your eyelids, lips, and cheeks, and wa'la — with one product, you've gotten a whole monochromatic makeup look!

12. Look for products you can apply with your fingers like BB creams, cream/gel blushes, and cream eyeshadows. Just rub, dab, tap, and go! The heat from your hands helps with natural blending, which saves you the frustration of mastering your sponge/brush technique. Not to mention how much time it saves!

13. We know wearing foundation every day can be a drag. Use BB cream or tinted moisturizer instead to get the same smooth and even-toned look with a more natural finish so you don't feel like you're caking on makeup all the time. Save foundation for special occasions!

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Looking for options? Try Maybelline BB Cream ($3.99), the Colourpop tinted moisturizer ($14), or Erborian BB Cream with Ginseng ($39).

14. If you have hooded eyes, keep your eyes open when you're doing any type of eye makeup. Whether you're doing liner or shadow, keeping your eyes open ensures that your makeup won't completely disappear the moment you open your eyes!

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Blending shadow above the crease is another way to make sure your eye makeup shows through.

Jennifer Lawrence has hooded eyes but never shies away from bold eye makeup! Notice how her eyeshadow is blended above her natural fold to ensure we can see the color rather than it disappearing.

15. Use a concealer that blends quickly and effectively so it doesn't take up much time. Dab it on, blend with your fingers or a sponge, and you're done! There's no need for complicated applicators or messy powders. Keep your concealer step stress-free!

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Maybelline's Instant Age Rewind Concealer is a good one for this. Get it from Amazon for $7.97 (available in 12 shades).

16. If it's too stressful to keep track of so many tools and products, use multipurpose makeup or makeup sticks — a do-all product you can use on your eyes, lips, and cheeks!

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Milk Makeup sticks ($15, Sephora) and Stila Convertible Color (Ulta, $25) are famous for this!

Revlon Insta-Blush Stick ($9.98, Amazon), Clinique Chubby Stick Cheek Colour Balm ($25, Sephora), and Benefit Cosmetics Benetint Cheek & Lip Stain ($30, Sephora) are also great all-in-one lip-eye-cheek options!

If you're looking for foundation, Colourpop Foundation Stix (Colourpop, $10) is perf for easy, tools-free coverage.

You ready to take on the day with your new time-efficient stress-free look:



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